The Psychology of winning 10 qualitys

The 10 Qualities of a Total Winner

Quality 1:  Positive Self-Expectancy 

"Life is a self fulfilling prophecy. True winners go into every event expecting to win."
"The problem with worry is that we attract the very thing we are trying to avoid. We live a self-fulfilling prophecy. Life keeps its agreement with us through our beliefs, because whatever we think about, we bring about. Life is like a mirror. It reflects back whatever image we present to it" (Brian Tracy). This quote represents a lot about the person who said it, or mentioned it. If you constantly worry about everything then you will probably attract everything you are even trying to avoid. Which is not healthy, mentally nor physically. 

Quality 2: Positive Self-Motivation 

"True winners dig deep and find motivation inside themselves to get through that tough task or to learn a new skill."

Self motivation is such an important aspect you need to see within yourself. If not, it could really mess you up mentally. Due to it messing with your thoughts. Having it mess with your thoughts and emotions it could lead to depression which is not healthy for anyone. However, having positive self motivation is good, because it can help the depression somewhat go away and make you re ensure your self who you truly are and what you're really capable of doing for yourself or others. For example i was so afraid of not passing my math class this senior year because i had such a low score and i thought i was not able to raise it up by the time graduation comes around. So, i spoke to my mom and she gave me some really good advice which helped a lot. So then later throughout the year i ended up doing a lot of missing assignments and got a "D" for that class which is passing. My goals for right now is to be a bit more positive about myself and get a "C" or even a "B".  In order for that, you really need to focus on having positive attitudes and being a positive person.

Quality 3: Positive Self-Image

True winners are confident and view themselves as competent, valuable human beings.

Being confident is an aspect you need to help yourself grow as a person. If you start seeing your self as a positivist person others will do to. Also, if you show others that not everything brings you down then you truly could be an inspiration to others. I know ive seen many people that don't let anything little bring them down. For example, my mom is one of the strongest women i know. She has been through so much to help me and my siblings and she always shows that she can be the one in charge. in results she has gotten a raise twice in her past jib barbecue she truly is a hard worker and does not let any little negative thing get to her emotions.

Quality 4: Positive Self-Direction

You gotta have direction if you are going to go anywhere. True winners know where they are going. Their sense of direction comes from the self and not from outside influences like parents or friends.

You need to know where you are going before you head out anywhere, or else you'll be lost and have no scenes of directions. which in my opinion most people need before taking a big step in life and moving onto something they may not handle. It is also  very important to take risk, not everything you do is going to come out the way you want too so mine as well just make the best out of it and try to make it your best. Put in all the work you possibly can. If you show that you are committed and show that you have self direction you definitely will go somewhere in life and show others what you're capable of. 

Quality 6: Positive Self-Discipline

You have to discipline yourself or else someone else will discipline you into doing what they want you to do. Total winners have the power to discipline and take control of their lives.

"You have to discipline yourself or else someone else will discipline you into doing what they want you to do" is a very true quote, you need to show power and discipline or one else will show it over you. Them showing you that they have more power than you is never a good image. You have to show that you are a winner and not a loser and that you can have some serious control over someone so they wont see you as someone weak. If people see you weak then you will be treated as a weak person very poor decisions choosing not to be taught way better. Some people may show a sign of disrespect just so others can know how they are and then half of the time they'll be shown respect. I'm not implying that you should be rude to others, but if you show others that you are way too nice, they will have power over you and make you feel alienated. 

Quality 7: Positive Self-Esteem

Your mood and outlook on life affect the way you see the world and how you interact in it. Total winners are positive, powerful people who make people feel good and provide a good vibe to those around him/her.

The way you see life is the way life will respond to you. either in a positive way or in a negative way. when i see life i like to see it as i'm the most important one which helps me self esteem. many people can react to it however they want, either in a good way or a bad way. Doesn't really matter to me because i know if i see life in a good perspective, life will treat me great. As the quote says "total winners are positive" which is very true because i have never seen anyone that is negative and sad about life that actually in something. Its kind of impossible to see that. 

Quality 8: Positive Self-Dimension

Total winners like in the present. They know that now is all there is. They don’t get caught up in the past or worry about the future. They simply handle the business that they can handle which is the stuff going on today, now.

not worrying about the past is important because if you do it could bring you down and make you not achieve what you really want to do. When presenting you need to give it all your best, because it shows who you are as a person. It can also impact you, in which way? you may ask, it can impact you in future references such as a job interview because when you go to a job interview you can not be nervous and worried about what others will think of you. You should not be worried about things like that when you should be worrying about other things.

Quality 9: Positive Self-Awareness
Total winners are aware of their power. They understand that they can be anything with enough effort and determination.

ive been watching plenty of shows to know that, when a person is well aware of their power they will know their worth. Knowing your worth makes you more powerful and in control of others, which is what i want. I don't think anybody wants to be pushed around and being told what to do, that is why i have always been the one in charge and know my worth. Would you rather be ruled around? or be the one to rule around? your answer will say a lot about a person. 

Quality 10: Positive Action

Total winners take positive action in their business and with their friends and family. They are uplifting and motivating individuals who inspire the best from themselves and other

Having positive action would be  a completion in life. You would be able to make so much more things more use of time, and not be wasting any time. Its either you try to do anything positive or negative and it actually could affect you. i learned things like this so many times here at school. Having to do presentations, if you have to do a presentation and you're being negative about it then you probably wont put your best into it and fail at it. But if you're positive about it and doing well then you'll probably succeed and do very well. Always have a positive mind on whatever it is you are doing.